A person who is confident in himself and does not experience difficulties in communication usually does not have doubts about his own normality and adequacy. He does not suffer from the consciousness of his own inferiority, does not try to become like everyone else.
Instructions
Step 1
A sign of maturity and masculinity has always been the ability of a man to take responsibility for himself and his loved ones. If you have problems that prevent you from living interesting, it makes sense to identify their roots in order to understand where you can expect trouble. Perhaps this is a difficult childhood, lack of spiritual closeness with parents or disabilities.
Step 2
Divide a piece of paper into two columns. On the left, write down all the problems you want to get rid of. On the right-hand side, describe the ways to achieve these intentions. For example, if you are oppressed by material dependence on your parents, think about how you could earn money yourself. Seek advice from acquaintances, look for ways on the Internet and in newspapers with job offers.
Step 3
If you fail after several attempts, do not blame it on evil fate, but think about what your mistake was. Perhaps you failed to recognize the "scam", made an unfavorable impression on the employer. Decide what you need to change in yourself to avoid such situations in the future. Maybe you need to dress differently, change your vocabulary, and not expect exorbitant profits from a temptingly simple job.
Step 4
Being in good physical shape builds self-confidence. If you do not have the opportunity to work out in the gym or in the sports section, buy dumbbells, an expander and sportswear. Run in the morning or evening, build muscles at home.
Step 5
Find a hobby that will help you develop like-minded people. The more interests you have and the more you know about your hobbies, the wider your circle of acquaintances will be, the more you will be respected.
Step 6
If you are shy, do not know how to strike up a relationship with girls, start communicating with strangers who do not cause you embarrassment - with fellow travelers in transport, shop assistants, etc. Try to joke with them, say something pleasant, maintain a light, easy conversation.
Step 7
Once you learn how to communicate with strangers, friendly chatting with girls will go much easier. Start with neutral topics: sports, significant events, her hobbies. Be attentive to how the girl behaves, watch her reaction and say what she wants to hear. She will almost certainly love the hints that she is special. It's okay if the hints are timid - most likely, the girl will understand them.
Step 8
If you find it very difficult to arrange a date with a girl, invite her to an event that you both are interested in - a concert, an exhibition, some kind of competition. Then you don't have to come up with topics for conversation and be tormented by the thought that the girl expects some action from you.
