For some, pedagogical activity is a dream and a real vocation, for others it is routine work. However, there are also some teachers who accidentally ended up in an educational institution. How can you tell if your child is suffering from the teacher's actions?
Low salaries, nerves and many other issues, including the general imperfection and complexity of the curriculum, are all that can infuriate a teacher and cause non-teaching and unacceptable actions.
Even now, there are cases in which children were beaten with improvised objects or simply with their hands, locked in a closet or put in a corner. But even more often children are humiliated and insulted. These actions have a negative impact on the child and his psyche.
Why it is important to "be on the alert"
An important point: children in elementary grades often do not complain to mom and dad about the teacher’s actions, because they may not understand that something is wrong. This is especially true for the first grades. Not every student knows what the educational process looks like, since he does not have an example to compare.
Or, let's be honest, the child may have been bullied at home during his preparation for school. In some families, parents, trying to teach the child to distinguish colors, count, give a name, etc. break down due to fatigue and lack of patience.
How to understand that a child is being bullied
Always be on the alert and ask your child how they spent their school day. In this case, you need to ask the child about everything and monitor his behavior.
If the child looks anxious or depressed, or refuses to go to school, this will be one reason to think. You can also ask leading questions, but there is no need to pressure him.
How to check the child's words about humiliation from the teacher?
There are several ways to test a teacher:
- Chat with children in the classroom and their teachers;
- Find out what the children are talking about to their parents at home.
It is also important to subtly ask the teacher how the kid behaves at school, how he copes with the curriculum and what problems he has.
One last thing to keep in mind is that parents have the right to attend school and class. This way you can check and evaluate the teacher's work. But in order to do this, you need to write a statement to the director and agree to attend lessons.