Divorce is not uncommon, and the reasons for it are different for all couples. Sometimes the spouses break up after going through court, division of property, mutual reproaches and insults. After such a breakup, hardly anyone wants to congratulate their ex-husband on the holiday. But some couples break up peacefully and continue to maintain friendly relations, especially if they have common children. How to congratulate your ex-spouse and remind you of the years you lived together.
Instructions
Step 1
Send your ex-spouse an SMS with holiday greetings. If this is a simple formality for you, congratulations should be simple and standard for the event. If you want to remind you of your old feelings, write congratulations in verses or mention in the text words that speak of something intimate, known only to the two of you.
Step 2
Order a song and congratulations from the radio station that your ex-husband likes to listen to. To comply with the usual formalities, it is enough to order a popular song appropriate to the occasion. For an unobtrusive reminder of yourself, order a song that is related to an event from your life together. This will make him remember how dear you were to him.
Step 3
Send a congratulatory email if you're sure your ex-spouse is constantly checking their email inbox. He will keep your email address, and he will be able to send you a response letter on occasion. And this can be the beginning of a new relationship.
Step 4
Call him on his mobile or home phone if you are sure he hasn’t got a new family. Otherwise, your call, instead of the joy of congratulations, will lead to a scandal or an unpleasant conversation with your new wife and cause grief.
Step 5
Congratulate your ex-mother-in-law on your son's birthday if you keep in touch. She will certainly inform her son about this and once again say words of praise addressed to you. And he will have a reason to thank you for not forgetting his mother.
Step 6
Book a table in a cafe for two, inviting him for a business conversation. If he comes, then you are still not indifferent to him and you will have the opportunity to personally congratulate your ex-husband on the holiday.
Step 7
Invite him to your home, explaining the invitation by the fact that your common child wants to congratulate dad on the holiday. Set a light table for three and let him feel the warmth of the family and the love of loved ones.
