Anger is a familiar and common thing. It is unlikely that you can find anywhere a toddler who has never shown his anger or irritation. Anger accompanied by aggressive behavior manifests itself very early, at two or three years old a child can bite, push, try to kick, break other people's toys, humiliate other children, tease them and mock them. Children show anger in reaction to a conflict, deprivation of something, to an attempt to invade his world and order, to high, from their point of view, demands. Quite often, anger is accompanied by jealousy, resentment and envy, worries about the impossibility of fulfilling desires here and now. Children's anger appears instantly, has a rapid course and complex control, which quite often takes parents and children themselves off the right track.
Parents' actions
After outbursts of anger, children need help to gain complete self-control.
If the baby has already had a fit of anger, then the parents must be sure to keep calm. Even after the most violent outbursts of anger, children are quickly discharged and forget about anger.
After the situation has happened, even with small children, you can talk about what happened, how and why. We can say that it is common for everyone to be angry, but the way he used cannot be acceptable, for example, "Your brother took your cubes, and you broke his structure out of anger. Did it help you in any way?"
A child needs to know how his parents deal with anger
Even the most prudent people can lose their composure. If it already happened there that one of the parents is furious, then it is better for him to retire and give himself a little time to calm down. Returning to the baby, you must try to explain to him everything that happened. And most importantly, admit that this way of expressing feelings is very bad and apologize to everyone, thereby setting an example for yourself.
Why do anger attacks happen?
The phenomenon of stiffness in children is quite common. Aggression manifests itself most often in children's relationships. Almost every kid encounters different forms of stiffness in a kindergarten, school or yard. Ask why these little angelic creatures can be so cruel?
In fact, toughness has many roots. From genetic, social and economic to physiological. Among the reasons may be television, the relationship between the parents, but the reason can never be one of them.
