Until recently, he was so sweet and well-mannered. And today your growing child has become rude, embittered, breaks into a cry for any reason. How should this behavior be handled?
Instructions
Step 1
Try to figure out the root cause of these aggressive outbursts. Perhaps the teenager gets tired of school workloads or there are difficulties in relationships with peers. Perhaps you have surrounded your child with excessive care, and his aggressive behavior is just a way to get rid of it?
Step 2
Children absorb the manners and behavior of those around them like a sponge. Quite often, they copy the behavior of the adults around them. It may be necessary to analyze the methods of communication and behavior in the family circle. Perhaps the child is a witness to a showdown. You should try to exclude such moments.
Step 3
Remember - there should be no place for reciprocal aggression. A negative outburst in response will only worsen the established contact. Try to react calmly and balanced to any rudeness. Try to communicate to your child that it is okay to show emotions, but encourage them to express them in a friendly way.
Step 4
Develop the child's ability to express emotions with words in a respectful tone. Try to work together to rearrange the aggressive phrases spoken by the child, choosing and using censorship and polite vocabulary. Just don't be too annoying. If your son or daughter does not want to communicate at the moment, reschedule the conversation to another time.
Step 5
Exercise maximum patience and tact so as not to create even more anger. The child does not know how to convey his emotions in words, hence the aggression, so figure out the reason together. It is also not worth ignoring the rudeness and rudeness in the behavior of the child, otherwise it will develop into a habit. What demeanor the child will take with him into adulthood depends only on you.
