In the life of any family, there comes a time when children begin to be rude and capricious. They don't obey, eat, or talk to their parents. Parents expect this behavior and do only one thing - severely punish. Sometimes whims indicate that another crisis in development has begun, but in most cases they are the result of improper upbringing. There are three most important problems that parents can face.
Instructions
Step 1
Passivity, anxiety and humility. Passive children grow up with guardian parents. They are sure that they are clumsy, incapable of anything and stupid. They are afraid of any kind of action and have difficulty expressing themselves, as a result of which they become outcasts of the class. What to do? Enroll the child in hobby groups and, at the same time, do not force him to do something forcibly.
Step 2
Whims and meaningless questions. The child has a lot of toys, but he does not want to play with them, and instead he begins to ask questions to already tired parents. He can also jerk them, distract and disobey them. In general, do everything that would attract the attention of parents to him. The reason for this behavior lies, of course, in a lack of attention. Try to play with your baby for at least an hour a day. Talk to him about his problems and affairs, share your impressions with him, read fairy tales to him. Remember - the more attention your baby gets, the less likely his whims are.
Step 3
Aggression and pathological lies. This behavior usually occurs in children with guardian parents. These children constantly develop the feeling that they are needed only when they win, and that is why they deal with it through competition, physical strength and aggression. It is best for parents to give their baby as much attention as possible and, of course, lower the bar of their requirements for him.
