When a girl falls in love, she dreams that the guy will reciprocate her. However, it often happens that a young man is polite to her, willingly communicates, but does not distinguish her from other girls he knows. It is embarrassing to say directly about your feelings, and for some reason all the hints do not reach the goal. How should a girl behave in such a situation in order to please a guy?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, do not be upset, do not get depressed, and even more so do not turn the desire to please a young man into a real obsession. It will only hurt you.
Step 2
Pay great attention to your appearance. Even if you are not a beauty, and your figure is far from the classic parameters 90-60-90, you can look very attractive. Choose the hairstyle and makeup that best suits your face type. Wear only clothing that enhances your figure and masks flaws as much as possible. Watch your speech, posture, gait, gestures. You have to give the impression of an interesting, intelligent, well-mannered girl. Be kind, smile more often.
Step 3
Improve your self-esteem in every way. If you are confident in yourself, in your attractiveness, it will be much easier for you to communicate with a young man and to like him. Suggest to yourself: even if he does not like you, this is not a tragedy and not the end of the world. In addition to him, there are many young people, and some of them will surely like you very much. This inner attitude will help you to behave naturally and at ease.
Step 4
Think about how you can stand out from the other girls around this guy. Inquire about it. Try to find out what he is fond of, what is his character, habits. This will make it much easier for you to find common ground.
Step 5
Remember all the time that guys and girls have completely different psychologies! Don't talk to him like a friend, this is a serious mistake. Let him choose a topic for conversation, listen carefully, showing that you are interested. If this topic is completely uninteresting or incomprehensible to you, try to skillfully and delicately turn the conversation to something else.
Step 6
If your efforts are crowned with success, the guy has shown a clear interest in you, in any case, do not encroach on his freedom. Do not demand that he pay all his attention only to you, spend all his free time with you, do not be capricious and annoying.
