The most common age for starting kindergarten is 3 years of age. It is at this age that the child begins to self-identify, he wants more independence and freedom of choice. Going to the kindergarten is a duty. Nobody asks the child if he wants this. The regime in the kindergarten also does not contribute to the child's freedom of choice. All these violations of their own freedom, which is so necessary at this age, the child can meet with hostility, showing aggression, being offended and capricious. And yet, parents can reduce the likelihood and severity of such a reaction. To do this, you must follow a few rules.
Instructions
Step 1
There is no need to rush anywhere and rush the child. It will be stressful for him, and stress provokes a negative reaction. Do not think that the child deliberately hesitates to annoy the parents. If the parents do not have enough time to get ready, then the alarm should be set at an earlier time.
Step 2
The parents themselves must get up before the child. Having done your morning chores in peace and quiet, you can wake up the child. So the parents will have the opportunity to help him with something or just keep a company. Joint morning exercises will cheer up not only the child, but also the parents.
Step 3
You need to talk to your child more. Be sure to ask about the news after kindergarten, discuss how his day went. And even if some events seem insignificant for the parent, it should be remembered that if the child talks about it, then it is important for him. No need to brush it off, you should rather ask his point of view.
Step 4
In their free time from work and kindergarten, parents should spend more time with their child. He should not feel that after starting kindergarten, his parents began to pay less attention to him. There should be certain rituals, traditional activities of the child with the parents.
