The concept of "pickup" has gained widespread prominence and popularity over the past few decades. In Russia, as in other countries of the world, courses and trainings are being created that teach the art of seducing the opposite sex, whole methodological manuals and dictionaries are being written on this issue.
The history of the origin of the pickup, its main goals and objectives
For the first time the term "pickup" appeared in Russia in the mid-90s. last century and originally meant a set of techniques used to attract the opposite sex. The proposed techniques attracted the attention of many people, and gradually a whole teaching arose on how to quickly and effectively seduce a girl.
Modern pickup techniques are designed primarily for a male audience. The course of effective seduction includes various techniques, secrets and techniques that allow you to influence the thinking and will of a woman, quickly achieving sexual intimacy from her by the power of persuasion. Usually, a pick-up artist is tasked with achieving physical intimacy with a woman in three dates.
At the same time, it is important that the object of influence does not guess that special techniques are used in relation to him, the fair sex must be convinced of the irresistibility of the man caring for her.
Pickup tools
Pickup techniques may be somewhat different from each other, but, as a rule, they all include the standard "gentleman's set". It includes both well-known and specific tools for influencing the emotional sphere of a woman, among which are NLP methods, kinesthetics (touching a girl), "neg-hit", which in the language of pickup means: confuse the victim, tell her something - that offensive; "Kryshesnos" - a date with the seduced in an unusual place, etc.
There is also a pickup dictionary containing special terms used in this "science". It includes such concepts as, for example, "calibration" - an assessment of the girl's reaction to the actions of a pickup artist; “OZhP” is a female person, “opener” is a phrase with which a pickup artist starts communication with a girl, etc.
As a rule, the methods of influencing the girl's consciousness are based on NLP techniques. Their main advantage lies in the fact that they allow you to influence the victim's consciousness imperceptibly. It is important for a pick-up artist to like a girl, so he quickly finds out her interests and tries to match them. The main task at this stage is to establish rapport, a state of trust on the part of the victim. After that, the leading stage begins - by manipulating the girl's consciousness, she is smoothly brought to the desired pick-up solution. In this case, NLP becomes a kind of analogue of hypnosis, but without explicit directives. Having learned at least the basics of NLP, you can easily manipulate other people.
Spiritual and moral side of a pickup truck
Not wanting to become a victim of someone's ambition, modern women are no less serious than men, they study pick-up techniques in order to recognize them in a timely manner. Seducing, throwing and looking for the next victim, collecting their victories, pickupers consider it something quite normal. However, when deciding to have fun in this way, it is worth remembering that life often boomerangs back what you give to others.
However, there are people who use pickup courses for good purposes as well. For example, if you are insecure, afraid to meet a girl, these techniques may be able to help you establish communication, but not for the purpose of deception and seduction, but for honest and trusting relationships.
