A serious relationship of a couple in love sooner or later comes to the question of marriage. Usually girls are waiting for this step from a man, wanting to hear the cherished question. But when several years pass, and he is silent, you have to think about how to push the guy to make an offer.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't ask a man to marry you. Requests and threats will only alienate him. You need to act imperceptibly, only pushing him and generating thoughts of marriage. Be tactful not to listen to "it was you who made me" all your life.
Step 2
Give him freedom. Sometimes men avoid marriage because they are afraid of being imprisoned. If you control his every step, prohibit relaxing with friends, do not allow playing computer games or watching football, he will not have a desire to be with you. No one wants to voluntarily put themselves in a cage.
Step 3
Stop talking about weddings, veils and limousines. Constantly hearing from you “I looked after a beautiful wedding dress” or “we will order a cake in a pastry shop on the corner”, he feels pressure. You seem to have made a decision for him and now you are just waiting for formal confirmation.
Step 4
Don't use methods like deliberate or fictitious pregnancy. This method does not work on all men, and you may remain a single mother. And if it works, then you will have to live with the idea that he proposed only because of your deception.
Step 5
Create a positive image of your marriage. Watch TV shows and movies with a happy family life. Meet familiar families where everyone is happy. Visit his parents if they have a good marriage.
Step 6
Don't play a role, behave naturally. Some women try to pretend to get married. Through force they force themselves to cook every day, take all the housework on themselves, watch films that they do not like, they are afraid to show themselves real with emotions and shortcomings. A man in this case can propose, but not to you, but to the woman whose role you played. And when you start to be yourself, your spouse can reconsider his views on many things. Sometimes it threatens divorce.
Step 7
Enjoy the moment. Do not rush things, because you love this person and want to be with him. Therefore, take care of him, love and show your best side. If you are sincere in your relationship, he will notice and propose.
Step 8
Pause your relationship to make him feel lonely. No need to act out a theatrical performance and slam the door. Get together and stay with your mom or a friend for a couple of weeks. It is not necessary to quarrel, come up with an excuse - illness, help, or just a desire to be with a loved one. In two weeks, a man can put aside thoughts of a bachelor life when he realizes how much he needs you.
Step 9
If all else fails and you can't wait any longer, have a frank conversation. Sometimes the relationship comes to a standstill when age is running out, and he has not made an offer for years. In this case, offer to discuss the situation. Find out his opinion about your future, whether he sees you together, whether he wants a wedding and family. If the man cannot answer clearly or will look for excuses, you will have to make a decision: either you are determining the approximate date of the wedding, or you are breaking up.
Step 10
Help the man overcome fears and problems. After a frank conversation, you can find out the reasons for the delay. The guy may just be afraid of responsibility, then you need to instill confidence in him. Convincing that you will be there and help to overcome all difficulties. If the problem is finances, say that you agree to a modest wedding. You can also arrange a banquet for an anniversary, when you have money. Show him that you are ready to work together to overcome all obstacles.
