Often a beautiful, successful and cheerful girl cannot understand why guys avoid her. The fact is that there are several feminine qualities and behaviors that most men do not like. And often girls do not know what these qualities are.
Self-focus is a bad way to please a guy
Many proverbs, films, forums and women's sites inspire girls with the idea that more than anyone else in the world you need to love yourself. There is some truth in this - having good self-esteem, you gain self-confidence, you look good, it is interesting to communicate with you, since you have your own opinion. However, you should not dwell only on yourself. Many modern girls believe that guys should be happy just to be around, without getting anything in return. This is fundamentally wrong. In addition, it is not necessary to give a guy expensive gifts, take him on dates and please in every possible way - this is a man's prerogative. And you can thank a man with a delicious lunch, a cute trinket, or a relaxing massage.
Men do not like mercantile women who value only the thickness of the wallet in a strong field.
A girl like a guy is not the best option
A girl should be a girl - feminine, mysterious, tender. If you prefer sportswear, have a masculine conversation, and do great renovations, you might be interesting. But not for long. Usually, a man, having met such a guy in a skirt, is at first surprised, he is intrigued by the unusualness of a new acquaintance and the opportunity to talk on any topic. But soon the male soul begins to miss the truly feminine qualities - caring, gentleness, helplessness. Using a male model of behavior, you will have many male friends, but alas, they will only perceive you as “their boyfriend”.
Most men love it when girls wear flying dresses, use natural makeup, and don't style their hair into intricate hairstyles.
Show helplessness wisely
Men are moved to see fragile girls who cannot open a bottle of water or lift a heavy bag on their own. But overplaying with helplessness is also not worth it. Constant whining, requests for help and lack of independence only irritate men. Young people want to have a relationship with a sweet girl, and not with a capricious child.
Silence is gold
Men really do not like girls who talk a lot - to the point and without. Sociability is a good character trait when shown in moderation. However, soon the man will cease to be touched by your childish spontaneity and will seriously begin to think about parting. Often the brain of a young man is busy with business problems and important issues, and constant gossip, discussions of acquaintances and just the flow of information can piss a guy out of himself.
