Thousands of scientists have written and talked about love, and now for many people love is the meaning of life. There are many sayings, myths, opinions about love. But there are 5 most common myths.
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Opposites attract. This is one of the most common myths that sounds very romantic, but in reality it is not. Opposites are attracted exclusively in temperament, nothing else. It is hardly possible to find strong and long-term successful relationships if the partners come from different economic and social environments. For some reason, 90% of people are sure that their other half should have the opposite qualities, which they themselves lack. However, many years of research have proven the opposite, that people are attracted to exactly those partners who have a similar level of intelligence and physical attractiveness.
Step 2
True love can only come once. Real strong love for a person can come several times, and each time he will experience a new experience of relationship.
Step 3
Love can overcome everything. In order to stay together for many years, love alone is not enough. The presence of love is only the beginning of a long journey, it is impossible to follow it without patience, a sense of humor and mutual concessions. Only those people who have common values remain loyal to each other the longest. And being in a relationship, you need to learn to manage your anger, solve problems, endure and not succumb to stress.
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Love lasts up to 3 years. About 13% of couples pass the test of love, and their relationship has been tested for many years. It is worth distinguishing between passionate love and romantic love, since these concepts are completely different. Passionate love has elements of obsession, insecurity, anxiety. And for romantic love - sexual compatibility, affection, bright feelings.
Step 5
Love at first sight. By nature, a person has an almost instantaneous determination of whether you can have a relationship with this or that person. This happens at first sight and occurs from a split second to 3 minutes. Even if our body realized that this person really suits us, then it is still impossible to love a person at first sight, since at first sight only a slight love, interest can arise. A feeling like love comes with time, sometimes it even takes years. However, 11% of strong alliances start at first sight.
