Everyone wants to build ideal relationships for life, but often this is hampered by the delusions in society, in some of which we sacredly believe, but if you blindly follow other people's advice, you may never achieve what you want. Before you are several common myths, knowing which you can avoid stupid mistakes.
1. Speaking louder, he will fulfill requests faster.
As you know, women are by nature often more impulsive than men, therefore, if they want to get consent from a man in any matter, they begin to raise their voices. Many women try to explain this not only from the point of view of physiology, believing that when talking in raised tones, a man will better understand the need for a request and, accordingly, fulfill it.
In fact, everything is not entirely true: men are often annoyed by the loud voices of their friends, and a person in a bad mood is not inclined to fulfill the request, but, on the contrary, to refuse. Nevertheless, the myth repeats itself over and over again, because sometimes men are reluctant to agree to a request only for the woman to calm down - of course, it is not a fact that concession to demands will result in the fulfillment of what they want.
2. The ideal man does not exist only in women's dreams
The dream of finding the perfect man is characteristic of every woman, and this is especially true for young girls. However, it should be understood that no one is perfect - they all have their flaws and oddities. In search of the ideal man, your whole life can pass, and in this case you risk not noticing a good partner who could make you happy - simply because he is not ideal from your point of view.
3. Men are looking for sex for one night and often do not want a long-term relationship
Most modern men want to establish a relationship with a woman suitable for him and live with her all his life - it is this desire that is the basis of all acquaintances and dates.
American psychologist Andrew P. Smiler has called the persistent myth that men need a one-night stand as "the Casanova stereotype." From his point of view, the need for a permanent partner is physiologically determined in a man: a man, of course, could fertilize hundreds of women in a year, but in this case he will not have the confidence that all these children are carriers of his genome and, therefore, not a fact, that his genes will be passed on to the next generation. It is much more logical to stay close to one woman and make sure that the children grow up healthy and are able to pass genes on.
4. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach
Most people prefer to eat tasty and healthy food, so, undoubtedly, both men and women should monitor their diet. However, the hearts of a man cannot be won in this way - if a woman does not seem attractive to a man, then no matter how well she cooks, she will not be able to get his favor.
It is much more effective to devote time to personal care and mental development - a beautiful and interesting woman is more likely to create lasting harmonious relationships than an unattractive but excellent cook.
5. They don't marry beautiful ones, they marry smart ones, and appearance is not important
In our age, many men seek to establish relationships with smart women, but at the same time saying that appearance does not matter is a big mistake. It should not be forgotten that a significant role in the relationship between a man and a woman is assigned to procreation: a beautiful woman is automatically perceived by a man as healthy, which means that she is a more suitable mother for his future children. Therefore, a woman needs to develop not only mentally, but also to monitor her appearance and devote time to caring for her figure, skin, her style and manner of movement.
