Disappointments and love disasters happen in the lives of many women. One of the most destructive is the marriage of a loved one to another. There is even a saying: "they love some and marry others." Unfortunately, this situation is not uncommon. Men approach the choice of a spouse very seriously and responsibly. There are many reasons why they marry other women. Motivation can be very different. But the quality of such marriages is not always the best.
Instructions
Step 1
To begin with, calm down and get rid of thoughts that call you to take revenge and do something bad to your ex. Consider that this will not bring your loved one back. Try to come to terms with the fact that your beloved is marrying another girl and learn to continue to live happily without him.
Step 2
You should not be sad and depressed for him, since he does not deserve this at all. To conceal resentment or anger at him is also a completely meaningless exercise, and this will only make you worse for yourself.
Step 3
Try to forget everything, delete it from your life once and for all. Do not sag under the stream of tears. You need to gather strength, put yourself in order and arrange a new life.
Step 4
Think it over carefully, wish your beloved happiness and let go. Do not forget to thank fate for ridding you of this person. Remember that a man who can easily put the feelings of a loved one on the line is an egoist of the highest degree. He is completely incapable of showing pity, love and understanding.
Step 5
Do not comfort yourself with vain hopes that they will quickly part, and he will be with you again. Do not expect to continue the relationship with him after his wedding, even if the man does not mind this option. Life is too short to be wasted in empty relationships. Remember that this love is not the last.
Step 6
Don't put love failure at the center of your life, rather take care of yourself. Buy a lot of beautiful things, visit a beauty salon, spend more time with friends and family. Chat with girlfriends you can trust with your feelings. Give yourself gifts.
Step 7
Take up a hobby. Attend various events, exhibitions and clubs, but do not sit in one place. You can change jobs as needed. Read more interesting literature, watch comedies and funny programs. Pamper yourself in every way you can.
Step 8
Choose a time and be sure to go somewhere to relax with friends.
