There is an opinion that a guy should always write to a girl first. However, some ladies prefer to take the first step on their own. But sometimes it happens that a girl just stops writing to a young man, and this behavior has its own meaning.
Reasonable compromise: write or not?
As a rule, frequent calls and messages from your girlfriend are not expected. There is a reasonable limit to everything. And if the girl is cultured, educated, she will not call and write to the guy every hour. Such messages will not lead to good. In addition to negative feelings (irritation, anger) of others, and even more so, there will certainly not be positive emotions.
The girls themselves are really looking forward to a call or a message from a loved one. Sometimes waiting is hard work. Sometimes it drags on and there is a desire to remind yourself of yourself. Such a step is welcome, but here it is also important not to spoil the opinion of yourself, because the guys have other things to do, problems that need to be solved without the participation of outsiders.
It is important to tolerate the freedom of personal space of each partner.
As a rule, girls are big lovers of talking and talking on the phone, and guys are not so talkative. However, it also happens when one call from a girl can really change something in a guy's life. It's no secret that one call is a chance to get to know each other, to strike up a relationship, both close and friendly.
The beloved woman does not write what does this mean?
If a girl does not cut off your phone with regular messages, this does not mean that she has lost interest in your person. Most likely, she is waiting for a call or SMS from you, afraid to seem annoying, or is really busy with business (working, studying, etc.). Such excitement arises in young men who are a little insecure.
If there is no doubt about the feelings of a loved one, then there is no reason to worry about infrequent calls.
Conversations and correspondence on the phone are not the only way to communicate, but a reliable way to maintain a good relationship, a means that will allow you to contact each other at the right time. A smart guy knows that if a girl does not call or write herself, he is the main thing in their relationship and controls her, deciding when to call and write and how many times.
It is advisable not to get carried away by telephone correspondence and conversations and not to sort things out for any reason and without. Let the phone be just a means of organizing meetings (live communication). You shouldn't limit the development of a relationship simply by messaging over the phone. This is the wrong path, and it has no positive future.
Of course, it also happens when a girl really does not want to write or call you. This is not so difficult to understand. During the conversation, the girl is not eager to communicate with you or drops your call, does not answer SMS, or tries to quickly end the conversation. Better to try to figure out what the reason is, in order to know if she needs you or not. Ask a direct question and ponder her answer. You will feel if the girl is no longer yours.
