It is believed that giving flowers to girls is the right thing to do. And any girl should be delighted with such a gift by definition. But sometimes, to the surprise of young people, this does not happen. Moreover, the girl may strongly dislike it if her man presents her with flowers.
Excessive practicality
It's no secret that now a beautiful bouquet is not a cheap pleasure. Flowers, especially those harvested "out of season" brought from afar, are quite expensive.
Of course, a bouquet of flowers in a room is beautiful. But even if you make every effort, you will not be able to keep it for a long time. Some, however, dry the presented bouquets, make up compositions from them and carefully store them, but such are still a minority. As a rule, a bouquet that has begun to fade is simply thrown away.
Perhaps the girl is simply sorry for the money spent, as it seems to her, "wasted." Especially if she and a young man already live together, and they have a common budget. But even if this is not so, perhaps the girl would prefer to get something more substantial and durable, bought by a young man for her for the same money?
Love for nature
Some people just don't like cut flowers. They consider plants devoid of roots and soil to be dead. And in some ways they are right! Indeed, it is sad to look at the "corpses of flowers", sentenced to imminent death just for the sake of briefly decorating someone's interior.
A living Christmas tree evokes similar feelings in many, which will have to be thrown away as soon as the New Year's celebrations are over. The knowledge that a tree has been ruined in vain can significantly spoil their festive mood, so they prefer to put an artificial spruce.
Moreover, as a rule, such people enjoy admiring and admiring flowers and plants in gardens, in flower beds and in flower pots. If the girl who doesn't like bouquets is this type of person, you probably shouldn't upset her by presenting cut flowers. She will experience much more joy and gratitude when she receives her favorite flower in a beautiful pot as a gift.
Wrong flowers
Or maybe the girl is not happy with the bouquet simply because she does not like the flowers from which this bouquet is made. Some people are happy with any colors, but some people have their own preferences and flowers that they don't like.
For some reason, it is believed that everyone should be delighted with roses, but this is far from the case. Perhaps the girl prefers something different, and before presenting her flowers, it is a good idea to ask her about her tastes.
Perhaps the too strong smell of some flowers annoys the girl. A bouquet placed in a room, exuding a strong aroma, can cause not joy, but a headache.
Maybe some flowers make your friend feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable. For example, many carnations evoke thoughts of a cemetery and a funeral, and yellow flowers are considered a sign that parting is coming soon. Others perceive both carnations and yellow very positively, but hate, for example, gladioli for reasons known only to them.
Or the girl categorically does not accept bouquets, because somewhere I heard a stupid statement that a man gives flowers only if he is guilty of something in front of his chosen one. Or maybe she's just allergic to pollen.
It turns out that a bouquet is not such a universal gift, and the choice of flowers for a loved one must be approached very thoughtfully and carefully, having previously found out how the girl will react to this, then both the young man and his girlfriend will avoid disappointment, and a beautiful bouquet will really become an expression only good feelings.
