What could be nicer than a gift for no reason? Especially if it is a gift from a beloved man. But sometimes girls complain that their young people do not give flowers and gifts at all, even on birthday and memorable dates they get off with only verbal congratulations. Why is this happening and what is the reason? Let's try to figure it out.
Why doesn't the guy give flowers and gifts? To answer this question, you need to consider the reasons that can lead a young man to such inattention in relation to his chosen one.
There are holidays for gifts, but it often does not occur to men to pamper their beloved for no reason.
Some young men believe that gifts should be given only for something, for example, for good behavior, absence of scandals and jealousy, regular delicious dinner, and so on. And few people come to mind to give a gift just so as to make a beloved smile.
In this situation, there are also many reasons for the lack of flowers and gifts, for example, a young man does not see prospects in a relationship or there may be some inner convictions of a man, and so on.
In some situations, a young man simply does not know which present to choose for his girlfriend in order to please her. Only light, unobtrusive, but frequent hints will help here.
Sometimes a young man does not have the required amount of money to give a present worthy, in his opinion. In such a situation, one can hint that any souvenir received from a loved one is a manifestation of love and attention, and its material value is not at all important.
Some young people believe that paying for a joint trip to the cinema, cafe or restaurant is also a kind of gift, so they simply do not consider it necessary to give another trinket.
Greed
And the point here is not at all a lack of funds, the guy just does not want to spend his hard-earned money on the chosen one. In some cases, even a trip to the cinema or coffee shop ends with a section of the bill.
Many people do not give gifts just because they do not know the tastes of the chosen one and are afraid to seem ridiculous in the eyes of their beloved. After analyzing the reasons, you can find the very one why the young man refuses to give flowers or gifts, and then very tactfully hint to him about it. Another important point: always thank the guy for the gifts, even if they are ridiculous, you didn’t like them and are not expensive at all, because sincere gratitude is a reason for a new present.
