Flowers are one of the simplest ways to express your feelings, and they are also a wonderful sign of attention. But not all men for some reason love or consider it necessary to give flowers.
Flowers are an incomprehensible gift
Women appreciate the flowers presented, even a lonely scarlet rose will make a lady happy sometimes for a very long time. However, not all men understand women's emotions. The fact is that they do not understand the love for such strange gifts. Admiration for flowers that will die within a couple of days causes bewilderment among men. That is why they give some more useful things that, alas, do not have even the remotest smack of romance. So usually the absence of flowers during courtship or even living together indicates that a man is simply a realist.
A great way to reverse this anti-romantic tendency is to explain in simple and understandable terms why it is so important for you to receive flowers from him. Explanations like: “When I look at the flower you gave me, I think about how I love you” very well. Logical men, for whom it is very important to be present in the life of their beloved woman, accept and understand such argumentation. However, it is very important not to press, whine or whine while explaining. In general, any pressure on a man to start giving flowers and gifts most often leads to scandals and quarrels.
Do not reproach a man in any way. If you want flowers in your house so much, try buying them yourself. Over time, your boyfriend or spouse may become involved in this process.
How do men replace flowers?
Practical men show their care and affection in some useful way. Think, perhaps fully working household appliances, non-creaky doors, a dishwasher donated in time can replace unexpected flowers presented for no reason in your eyes.
If you tell a man that you do not feel love from him, and he goes and repairs the coffee maker because you love coffee, this is how he shows his love. You just speak completely incomprehensible to each other languages. Therefore, it is important to talk to him about the romance in your relationship without reproach. Perhaps it will work on him.
Almost any problem of this kind stems from a lack of informative conversations. Just try to chat with a man, maybe you will learn a lot of new things.
By the way, think about when you gave your boyfriend or husband something for no reason. Women believe that gifts are a kind of one-sided game. Meanwhile, men are just as pleased as women are to receive signs of attention. Try to give your man some nice little thing, and you will see that he will not remain in debt.
