Over the past decades, a lot has changed in the lives of married couples. After all, until recently, civil marriage was a curiosity, and now you will not surprise anyone with this. And what is interesting: any woman in such a marriage believes that she is married, but a man, on the contrary, that he is free. But, alas, cheating happens regardless of whether you have a stamp in your passport or not, and no one is immune from this.
Instructions
Step 1
The most "dangerous" in terms of betrayal is considered the age from twenty-eight to forty-five years and, most importantly, according to statistics, any marriage is not immune from this. The probability of betrayal reaches its peak by three, nine or fourteen years of marriage, but you should not get hung up on this, since these figures for each family are purely individual and not always correct.
Step 2
Women today do not want to be inferior to men in anything, including in terms of small intrigues, which then, suddenly, turn into divorce. Even the first suffragettes, who once fought for their rights, put forward their main thesis: "Why do men have the right to cheat, but women do not?" But to this day, despite the general emancipation, women change much less than men (almost three times, according to statistics). Maybe the whole point is that the morality of women is much higher than that of modern men.
Step 3
In general, modern women are considered more conservative in relation to infidelity, because they still adhere to traditional views on marriage, considering themselves "keepers of the hearth". However, one type of women is categorically against betrayal, and the other does not accept it only for themselves, but at the same time it is not at all against the probable betrayal of other women in order to get at least some consolation from a failed family life. The majority admit that they are not against at least once violating marital fidelity, but different circumstances interfere: family problems, children and household chores. Such a woman will think a hundred times before agreeing to such an affair.
Step 4
The fact that women are much less likely to cheat on their husbands can also be explained by the fact that they have fewer opportunities for this, because the social circle of a married woman is narrowed down to mutual friends, relatives and work colleagues. And if at work there is no suitable candidate even for light flirting, and moral principles do not allow starting a little affair with a friend's husband, then, in general, she no longer has anyone to choose from.
Step 5
Men, moreover, do not have to look for too serious excuses for frequent absences from home, since their choice is huge: a friend invited him to have a glass of beer; fixing a car or simply staying late at work. And if, nevertheless, the wife considers it necessary to check the words of her husband, then any of his friends, out of purely masculine solidarity, will confirm his “alibi”. What can not be said about women's solidarity, because a friend, for one known reason, at any time can "lay" a friend to her husband. In addition, the unexpectedly close friendship, until recently, not so close women, can raise questions.
Step 6
Be that as it may, female infidelity, if it does occur, bears much more serious consequences for the marriage. Unlike men, who believe that cheating does not affect their relationships in the family in any way, women, being seriously carried away, do not want to put up with rare meetings. After all, if they have serious feelings, then for them career, reputation and stability of marriage fade into the background, and in this case divorce is inevitable.
