When a husband and wife, being married, begin not to understand each other, often accuse of something, scandal and swear, then one spouse or both think about divorce. There are situations when a man becomes the initiator of a divorce for one reason or another, and the spouse still continues to love her husband.
Instructions
Step 1
If it is no longer possible to return your husband, then do not be discouraged and do not feel sorry for yourself. Try to put all your worries aside and understand why the divorce happened? What was the real reason for it, and not the reason? What can be changed on your part in order to avoid the same mistakes in the future in a new relationship. It is necessary to reason with a fresh mind, without self-pity and claims to the ex-husband.
Step 2
As much as possible, dive headlong into work or creativity. Don't be afraid to take overtime at the office - this will be the most effective way to forget and forget. Spend more time with your children: go with them to exhibitions, museums, attractions, rollerblading or ice skating. Remember that divorce is even more difficult for your children than for you, so talk to your children more often, hug and kiss, and give your love without a trace.
Step 3
How to survive a divorce from your husband in the absence of children and work? Do not despair, there is always a way out. First, remove, or better, throw out all the things that somehow remind you of your ex-spouse. Better to make repairs. Thus, you will not only forget about your experiences for a while, but also bring your creative ideas to life, and also update your home.
Step 4
Do not forget about your appearance. Change your look, wardrobe, makeup, hairstyle. Get interested in fashion. Sign up to a beauty salon or spa for relaxation. Take a course of therapeutic massage and travel to the countries you dreamed of visiting, but could not for one reason or another.
Step 5
Set yourself new goals and objectives that you must solve. This can be looking for a new job or promotion, learning a new profession, or playing sports.
Step 6
Do not blame yourself that there was a divorce, that you did not save the family at all costs for the sake of the children. Remember that children are more unhappy in those families where, under the guise of a prosperous family, there has long been no love, tenderness and respect for each other by both spouses. Children are happy when understanding, sincerity and real feelings reign in the family.
To survive a divorce from your husband, you need to pull yourself together and start life from scratch, taking into account the mistakes made.
