People meet and sometimes part - this is the law of life, and you need to learn to cope with losses with dignity. However, sometimes it happens that some exes are not affected by conversations or threats. He still loves you and intends to return by any means.
Instructions
Step 1
You probably loved your ex-boyfriend. He seemed to you smart, interesting, understanding. Why is he acting like an inadequate guy now? Have a heart-to-heart talk with him. This man was once close to you. You probably remember his strengths and weaknesses, the things that make him angry, and what he thinks is right. Let him know that your relationship will not continue, and explain to him in a way that he understands. Typically, when a girl gives detailed answers to all of her ex's questions, he calms down and begins to cope with grief alone.
Step 2
Think if you yourself added oil to the dying fire of love? It is possible that, parting with the gentleman, you said in your hearts that he did not give you flowers and paid little attention. Thus, you have hurt men's pride, and now your ex is on duty at the entrance door all day long with a bouquet in his hands. He, in general, does not want to return you. He just wants to raise his self-esteem. If you really want to get rid of your boyfriend, accept the bouquet and part this time without reproach.
Step 3
Introduce your new boyfriend to a compulsive ex. If you haven't had time to start a relationship with someone else, ask a friend to play the role. You may bump into a threesome with an ex on the street, or your new boyfriend may take another call asking you to come back. For many men, having a new boyfriend acts like a cold shower - this means that they really no longer need him.
Step 4
If, after all your tweaks, calls from an abandoned young man do not stop, consider changing your mobile number. If you are renting an apartment, look for other accommodation. You live in yours - go to your parents or friend for a week. Ignore e-mail messages, do not go to the balcony, hearing his calls from the street. Few will continue to harass if the victim doesn’t react in any way.
Step 5
Sometimes there are unbalanced personalities who do not just pester with calls and letters. They act on the principle “so don't get you to anyone,” harassment and threats can be really frightening. In this case, do not hesitate to write a statement to the police.
