“He took all his things and went to his mother. He said not to wait - he will not return. Love has passed. I can't look at these empty cabinets! - Inna cries into the phone. "I feel so bad that I want to die." They lived in marriage for seven quite happy years. At least, so it seemed to her. And now it was all over. How to live on if your husband no longer loves?
Instructions
Step 1
Let's make a reservation right away that not a husband, but an ex-husband. There is a fundamental difference between a spouse and an ex. The first is in the present, the second is in the past. It is necessary to draw a line, divide life into "before" and "after". Not in the sense that life ended on Black Tuesday, but in the fact that when he left, you began a new round of events and days. The task is to learn to live without him and be happy at the same time, no matter how strange it sounds now. Awareness and understanding will come much later, when you will be able to calmly think about everything and draw conclusions. In the meantime, it is enough, albeit mechanically, to follow the following recommendations.
Step 2
Remember the old anecdote: "If the husband left for another, it is still unknown who was lucky!" In fact, did everything go so smoothly? Did you fight constantly? Maybe he cheated on you? Did you make little money? Now is such a period that in no case should you idealize your ex-spouse. Moreover, you deserve more.
Step 3
Drop everything, borrow money if you don't have it, and go on vacation. It has been proven that two weeks in a five-star hotel on the shore of a warm sea nullify almost all heartfelt dramas. A non-binding holiday romance or even a sultry flirtation is highly recommended.
Step 4
On your return, start solving financial issues, including the division of property. Do not postpone the matter indefinitely: now the ex-husband has an increased sense of guilt, which you can easily turn into additional square meters and diamonds. Well, if he is naked as a falcon, then there is nothing to cry about at all.
Step 5
Arrange a ceremonial burning, or at least take out all the things that remind you of it. And do not regret a comfortable ottoman with a buckwheat husk mattress! Understand that right now you can do the business that you have dreamed of for so long: whether it be Spanish courses, reading at night, or traveling to clubs. Live for yourself and enjoy every day, regardless of whether you are alone or with someone.
