Until recently, everything was great in your relationship with your beloved, and now you heard the terrible words: "I'm leaving, let's just remain friends." It seems that the earth has gone from under your feet, and you do not know how to return it. Maybe these tips will help you with something.
Instructions
Step 1
The very first thing to do is to pull yourself together. After the breakup, this is very difficult to do, but necessary. Stop crying all night long and calmly consider what happened.
Step 2
Scroll through recent events in your head. Soberly assess, as if from the outside, your actions and his attitude towards them. You will see where the cooling began, what caused the gradual distance of your young man.
Step 3
Analyze and draw conclusions. Maybe the reason for the breakup was your too high demands on the guy, and he was tired of enduring the eternal nagging? Or, on the contrary, did you greatly idolize him, submissively obey his will, did not have your own desires? So he got tired of enduring such a faceless creature near him.
Step 4
After the reason is found out, try to change everything. But don't make the following mistakes:
do not throw tantrums. Do not try to sort things out by shouting. Do not convince him to return and do not prove anything. This will push him further away from you.
Step 5
Don't push yourself on the guy. Do not try to return past relationships through your humiliation, do not beg for love. It won't get you anywhere. On the contrary, it will push him even further. Men do not respect women who are too willing to do anything in order to keep the relationship.
Step 6
Don't chase him. There is no need to lie in wait for him near work or an entrance, you should not call or send messages. He will only laugh at such obsession, and even tell his friends how you are pursuing him.
Step 7
On the contrary, try to act as if you are doing great. Let him see how you walk with a confident gait and with your head held high. It will surprise him.
Step 8
Spend as much time as possible with your mutual friends. And in no case cry to them. On the contrary, try to look cheerful and cheerful. This will interest him.
Step 9
Try to look your best. Buy yourself a new fashionable dress, dye your hair, change your image. This will intrigue him.
Step 10
Seeing all these changes in you, he will think that he may have overlooked something. And he will want to come back to see you, so new and unexpected, better. And everything will depend only on you - do you want to return the destroyed love?
