In marriage, a man and a woman are obliged to fulfill their marital duty, but the spouses themselves establish the routine of intimate life. At the same time, some women feel the need for sex more often than their husbands, which can lead to disagreements and problems in the family.
Instructions
Step 1
Find out your husband's attitude towards sex. Some men prefer to do it a certain number of times a week or even a month. Of course, this may not always please the spouse, who often wants intimacy with her husband, but if you love your man, you should, at least at first, accept his small demands and fulfill your marital duty when your spouse wants it. Perhaps over time, he will begin to pay more attention to you.
Step 2
Try to take sex less seriously. Married life is very diverse, and there is probably something else that unites you, makes you love each other and have fun together. Try to please your husband in other ways, for example, cooking deliciously, keeping the house clean and tidy, caring for your husband, giving him support, etc. Over time, you will see that intimate life has faded into the background for you.
Step 3
Set long-term goals and strive to achieve them. For example, you can focus on your career, improve your appearance and figure. This will help you distract from the constant desire for intimacy and direct your efforts in the right direction.
Step 4
Try to stop idealizing your husband if nothing helps you distract yourself from thoughts of him. Most likely, he has flaws that make you dislike. In addition, if he rarely pays attention to you, this may serve as an excuse to harbor a little resentment against him and, in revenge, stop considering him your ideal.
Step 5
Have kids. Perhaps the time has come for a new stage in your life, when you can pay attention to raising a new generation. As a rule, the maternal instinct is very strong and distracts a woman from other responsibilities. As a result, parenting can help you get rid of the annoying desire for intimacy.
Step 6
If you lack intimacy with your husband, you can find other ways to give yourself physical pleasure, such as masturbation. Some women find comfort in spending more time and more often talking to their girlfriends, sharing their problems with them, and looking for solutions together. Shopping is also a fairly effective way to forget about your desires: the joy of owning a new thing is quite capable of overshadowing all other women's experiences.
