People meet, fall in love, and then, for some unknown reason, part. It has always been that way, and nothing will change. Therefore, after parting, you do not need to despair and get depressed. Life goes on and requires active action from you. Don't give all your attention to past problems, focus on the future. After all, it is very easy to start a new relationship, it is much more difficult to keep a partner.
Instructions
Step 1
Free yourself from your past life. To start a new relationship, you must forget your past partner. But you should not start if you are not yet ready to connect your life with another person. Nothing should weigh down your future relationship. Make sure the previous partner is no longer claiming your attention. If you were married, complete all procedures with the division of property.
Step 2
Learn from past failures. Think about the fault of the relationship. Perhaps you will learn a lesson for yourself so as not to repeat past mistakes.
Step 3
Take a closer look at the possible future partner, whether you can withstand him, whether he can withstand you. If there is no mutual understanding between people, then there can be no talk of any relationship. Make sure you don't step on the same rake. After all, if you choose the same type of partner again, the likelihood of another failure in the relationship is high. You should know for sure that this person is ready to stay with you forever.
Step 4
Build your future with a partner. It will not hurt to change your place of residence. The new environment will allow you to focus on your new life, leaving all the old behind. If this is not possible (finances do not allow, it is convenient to get to work, the children are close to school or kindergarten), make repairs, throw away old things that remind you of your old relationship, buy new ones. Refresh everything around you beyond recognition so that nothing reminds you and your new partner of the past.
Step 5
Develop new joint habits, rituals. Meet new people. After all, in old companies you will be constantly asked about the "former" or compared to the "former". Now you have a new life. And even the shadow of the past relationship should not bother and embarrass you.
