Having received a wonderful opportunity to start everything from scratch, to build a new family anew, you need to try not to repeat the mistakes of past relationships.
Instructions
Step 1
Conduct a serious analysis of your past relationships, what caused the scandals, what personal qualities and actions of your ex-spouse (wife) hurt you most of all, annoyed you. Make sure that your new spouse doesn't have qualities that are particularly unpleasant to you, or prepare yourself not to notice them by focusing on the merits of your loved one.
Step 2
Make sure you don't have feelings for your ex-husband (wife). It is impossible to extinguish feelings with a new relationship, so you will only transfer existing problems to a new family. A revenge marriage will not bring relief and is unlikely to last long, do not aggravate the situation.
Step 3
It is necessary to leave the past in the past. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, let go of all insults. Forgive yourself and your former life partner for all the mistakes and misdeeds, all the pain that you caused each other. Take into account all the wrong steps you have taken and do not repeat your mistakes in a new relationship. Change your behavior. Do not transfer old problems to new relationships, because the result will be the same.
Step 4
Never compare your new life partner with your old one out loud. Of course, the choice of a new lover comes from comparing his qualities and merits with the qualities and character of a person from a past relationship. To make the right choice and build a warm, strong relationship, you should avoid someone with the same temperament that you refused to put up with in the past. But do not voice your thoughts, this can seriously hurt the new spouse and cause new disputes and scandals.
Step 5
Learn to listen and hear your loved one. Communicate, share thoughts and experiences. Do not run problems, do not leave them to chance, when they accumulate, it is more difficult to understand the reasons and find a mutually beneficial solution. Make concessions to your loved one, find compromises, your significant other will always meet you halfway. Take care, keep new relationships in all ways, because changing a partner essentially does not change anything if you do not solve problems, but carry with you like luggage.
Step 6
Do not listen to outside opinions, you must make all decisions on your own, listening to the voice of your heart and mind, this is your relationship, your life and only you are responsible for your happiness.
