Any girl in her dreams plans to meet a spiritually related man who will carry her in his arms, unquestioningly understand and support. When a meeting with such a man takes place, everything turns out not as bright and festive as dreamed of. Time passes, and the dying passions are replaced by everyday life with their quarrels, discontent, misunderstanding and mutual claims.
Literally after a year or two of family life, the spouses already know each other well, and can predict each next step or word of their soul mate. Just at this moment, passion begins to subside, but quarrels, claims and discontent with each other flare up with incredible force.
Relationships tend to change. And they will either develop further or come to naught. The second option is possible if one of the partners agrees to change and work on himself, and the other does not. If both spouses are ready to develop their relationship and move forward, then it is worth be patient - after all, this is the work of almost a lifetime.
What can you do to get closer to your beloved husband again and continue to develop family relationships?
A few tips:
1. Be sure to analyze your behavior. You should not criticize your spouse all the time, constantly express dissatisfaction with him. Romance and claims are incompatible things. But your husband may start looking for peace of mind on the side.
2. Discuss the topic of cooling with your husband. In a benevolent manner, explain to him your concerns, and ask for advice, like a wise man.
3. Start taking care of yourself - sign up for strip plastic - a pleasant surprise for your loved one, and benefits for your figure and health. Change your image. Make a wonderful tradition of doing nothing once a week, leaving that time for yourself. Be sure to set aside such a day for a man, relieving him of worries about children and family. Try to put your “inner self” first for yourself. Enjoy the joy of being with yourself. Your man will see how much you value yourself, and believe me, he will also appreciate you.
4. Establish a dating tradition. Plan several meetings with your husband, one - make a pleasant surprise. Allow your man to plan a surprise date for you as well.
5. Do not avoid topics about sex, talk more often, so you both will understand what and who likes and what needs to be changed.
6. Try to communicate more during the day about a variety of topics: nature, dreams, fashion, plans, etc. Cuddle your man more often is great for strengthening the relationship. Family breakfasts and dinners also bring partners together.
One of the main rules to achieve success is to stop perceiving your husband as a villain, lazy person or villain. Once you chose him, and together you walk through life, so the relationship needs to be established. Remember every second of what you are striving for in this relationship. If you are satisfied with scandals - swear to your health, and if your goal is a strong and loving family - start, first of all, with yourself!
