In a relationship, there are two types of closeness: emotional and physical. The second is often enough for a man. But women, for whom most of sex is a consequence of deep affection or a pleasant addition to it, dream of spiritual closeness with their partner. It is possible for even the most different people to become closer to each other, because opposites, as you know, attract. You just need to make a little effort and believe in a positive result.
Instructions
Step 1
The main principle of rapprochement in a couple is a common interest in something. Even if you have different characters, professions and friends, you can always find some kind of hobby that will unite you. For some, it’s watching the show every night under a cozy blanket. For others - joint trips to nature, classes in an amateur ballroom dance club, finally, travel … The main thing is to find a point of contact. And then you can develop and deepen this spiritual intimacy by planning a new trip or buying a subscription for ten pairs of Rumba lessons.
Step 2
To get closer to a man, you need to live his life. Not literally, of course. It is enough to be sincerely interested in his work, remember all his friends and be interested in their news. And do not listen with a sour face about how your partner showed himself at the last meeting, but support him with a compliment. It is important for all of us to know that there is an understanding and compassionate close friend nearby. A beloved woman may well become such a friend if she leaves aside selfishness and pays more attention to her man, his victories and failures.
Step 3
Non-verbal communication works well for some men. They gradually get closer to the woman who makes them understand that she wants it. For example, he is constantly in the so-called "intimate zone of communication" - at a distance of less than 60 centimeters. This approach is most effective for male kinesthetics, those who appreciate tactile sensations: kissing, stroking, and so on.
Step 4
Good sex is the best way to bond. Psychologists say: with an unsuccessful intimate life, even the strongest spiritual relationship sometimes does not keep a man and a woman together. If there are problems in bed, they need to be solved, independently or with the help of a specialist. Believe me, a man on a subconscious level will perceive your concern for the quality and brightness of his sex life as another step towards rapprochement.
