In a family, a man should be the main one, any woman wants to feel like behind a stone wall. How can I help my husband become the head of the family?
Instructions
Step 1
The first thing a woman needs to know is not to take on the responsibilities of a husband. Even if you are confident that you can do better. Leave everything to the man, or he will just get used to the fact that he is not needed and will calmly shift the entire burden onto you. You cannot kill in a man the desire to take the initiative into his own hands.
Step 2
Demonstrate your dependence on your spouse. Say you couldn't have done it yourself and he is doing much better. Men prefer weak and fragile women who demand their protection.
Step 3
Ask your husband for help on your own. It's hard for a man to guess about your needs, and resentment and quarrels can be avoided if you just ask your loved one for a favor. Even if the husband often forgets about promises, do not be upset, men have so many deeds and thoughts in their heads. He will be grateful to his caring wife, who, without unnecessary reproaches, calmly reminds of the promised deeds.
Step 4
Be sure to praise your spouse for everything he does, for the slightest success. Do not be afraid to overdo it, a man will want to reach for the ideal that his wife sees. Such regular praise stimulates the desire to do more, to conform. This is a good way to boost a man's self-esteem and build self-confidence.
Step 5
Emphasize the leadership of your husband especially in public. Tell us how well he copes with all matters, solves any family problems. You feel protected next to a reliable man. There is no need to discuss with your friends the shortcomings and mistakes of your husband, always show respect, he is the best, just because he is yours, be proud of your choice.
Step 6
Leave the last word with the man. Even if you are discussing problems together, express your point of view, do not indicate, and the final decision should be made by the husband. Thanks to a well-coordinated relationship and trust, the spouse will always take your opinion into account and make the best decision for everyone. Likewise, children should know that the father's word is a law that cannot be discussed.
Step 7
Your man is undoubtedly strong and responsible, but still a man who has the right to make mistakes. Do not expect everything from your spouse at once, get into the situation. There is no need to demand more than a man can give. If he began to do something, do not rush your spouse, give him time, trust your beloved husband.
