Many women habitually flinch at night when they hear the key turn in the keyhole. A drunken husband came, which means that you can forget about sleep and peace. The script will develop according to the knurled program: showdown, furniture collapse and, in the end, intimacy in a cloud of alcoholic vapors.
Just as the well-fed does not understand the hungry, so the happy owners of teetotal or quiet husbands will never understand those women who have to live with an aggressive drinking spouse. Sleepless nights are not the worst consequence of male drunkenness, the worst is the unplanned conception of children, which occurred in a state of alcoholic intoxication. Women go to different tricks to calm down a drunk who came home and avoid having sex with him.
Effective but prohibited methods
Some desperate wives go on to try to lull aggressive spouses with sleeping pills. The method is effective, but very risky. Even relatively harmless sedatives combined with alcohol can turn into dangerous substances and lead to unpredictable results. The person can die and you risk being criminally liable.
Violence breeds violence. Attempting to raise an aggressive husband with a rolling pin can lead to the fact that you have to run away from this rolling pin. It is enough to look at any police report to make sure that an inadequate man is capable of anything. The blow can both pacify the brawler and cause him a fit of anger, which will greatly complicate the situation.
Psychological methods
In the West, women who have failed to calm down a drunken husband do not hesitate to call the police. This is not accepted in our country. First, the police are extremely reluctant to come to such calls. Secondly, you can be sure that when you leave the police station your sober spouse will not thank you for a wonderful time spent in the "monkey house". Thirdly, the spouse's relatives will accuse you of having "handed over" their beloved relative to prison. In general, the police should only be called when there is a real threat to your health and your life.
Try to shame your spouse. Find that "thread" by which you can pull in order to bring him to consciousness. Switch your husband's attention away from what is of concern to him at the moment. Requires promises? Promise "with three boxes." Remember the grievances? Ask for forgiveness. This approach will give you every chance of falling asleep as soon as possible. You do not need to worry about your pride: most likely, your faithful tomorrow will not remember anything that you told him.
How to avoid sex
It is unlikely that sex with a drunk husband will bring you pleasure (although there are exceptions). If you want to avoid intimacy, take the time. Agree to everything and go to the shower, leaving your loved one alone with the sofa and the TV remote control. Most likely, having switched several channels, the spouse will simply fall asleep without waiting for love. If your husband does not fall asleep, offer him some sweet wine or liquor with you. The husband will be delighted that his wife finally understands him, and will love to kiss the glass. Having got "on the old yeast", sweet alcohol will work as a sleeping pill and save you from having sex with a drunken spouse.
