One can argue for a long time about what she is, the “ideal lover” from a male point of view, or you can turn to the results of sexological research and use them for your own good. The first thing that I would like to clarify: a "mistress" is not the one who is associated with a married man. The “mistress” in this case is one of the hypostases of a woman, the one who shares the joys of carnal pleasures with her man.
Instructions
Step 1
The perfect lover has an orgasm
Men are much more attentive to their partner's satisfaction than is commonly believed. And a man needs to feel the satisfaction of a woman. This is necessary not only to reinforce self-esteem, but also to realize one of the most important desires in the plane of relationships - the desire to please your chosen one. If the situation with sexual satisfaction is not as rosy as we would like, it will not take long to affect the general mood of the couple.
Women who know this often decide to fake an orgasm. That's just a "road to nowhere." Even if the partner is unaware of the simulation, the woman herself continues to accumulate dissatisfaction and the irritability generated by her. Sooner or later, these feelings will break free and begin to manifest themselves in aspects of relationships that seem to be unrelated to sex.
In addition, orgasm stimulates the release of several hormones responsible for a good mood, and even for the perception of a partner. Therefore, the behavior of a woman who has experienced the influence of a hormonal "cocktail" changes towards greater contentment, manifestations of tenderness and love become more frequent. And only a brilliant actress will be able to simulate this, but will she herself be happy in this case?
Step 2
The ideal lover is easy-going
It often happens that a man decides to cheat only because some of his sexual fantasies cannot be realized with his wife due to the latter's overly conservative views. Therefore, the ideal lover is a woman who, if she does not start to fulfill all the whims of her man, then is relaxed enough in her views to be able to discuss the erotic addictions of her partner.
The ideal lover is interested in sex (and interesting with a specific man), and therefore she is ready to try new things, to learn different facets of sensuality. An intimate relationship devoid of routine blooms with new colors and affects relationships even more than one might think.
Step 3
The ideal lover values herself
This woman takes her health seriously. She understands well: there can be several partners, but she is alone. Therefore, such a woman takes a responsible approach to the issue of contraception. In addition, the ideal lover appreciates her sexuality and tries to develop various aspects of it: both to perform exercises for intimate muscles, and to open new erogenous zones in herself. Women are sensitive creatures, able to experience an orgasm even from touch.
Step 4
The ideal lover has her own opinion
Such a woman will not silently bite her lips when something happens that she does not like. The ideal lover knows that real pleasure is the pleasure of two. Therefore, she will not force herself to do what she does not want, she will not tolerate pain. This is a woman with character - and if she doesn't like something, she will say about it.
