These five rules form the basis of daily communication with your child. These guidelines will help you build a close and trusting relationship with your child. And it doesn't matter how old he is - 15 or not another year.
Instructions
Step 1
Love the child.
Communicate with him more often and do not forget to show that you hear and understand him. Maintain the conversation, give detailed answers to the child's questions. for children it is very offensive to hear a ban without explanation. Spend no time and effort in talking and explaining, because this is an invaluable drive in the development of the baby's self-esteem and intelligence.
Step 2
Learn to express your feelings.
This must be done so that in adulthood, the child is not afraid of his feelings, and can understand the feelings of other people.
Learn to see the emotions of the child without words, by the expression on his face, even if he hides them. Give your toddler responsibility for some simple homework. Those children who contribute to a common cause, for example, keeping the house clean, feel satisfaction from the fulfillment of their small mission, feel like an important part of their family.
Step 3
Praise even for any successes.
His desire and desire to do something is much more important than the results. Often parents take good deeds for granted, and focus on small mistakes. Let the kids be wrong, they learn from it. This is simply necessary. When angry with a child, do not judge him, but his wrongdoing. The punishment must be fair and specific. The child must understand what exactly and why. Be sure to praise if he corrected. Never use physical punishment in your life. This humiliates the child, makes him helpless in front of you - this feeling will definitely negatively affect his adult life.
Step 4
Learn to say no.
Be sure to tell your child that there are suggestions that need to be refused. It is good to be polite and obedient, but it kills the personality in the child. Trouble-free children depend on their parents to make decisions. Give your child the opportunity to express their own opinions in certain situations.
Step 5
Laugh more.
Do not be afraid to take your child with you to new places, give him new impressions. We all remember childhood all our life - in your hands is your child's childhood, make him happy, full of joy and love, filled only with pleasant impressions.
