Malfunctions in sexual life can deliver not particularly pleasant emotions to partners. One of the common problems is the duration of intercourse, which does not match the temperament of either partner.
It rarely happens that the rhythms of both partners coincide when having sex. What looks beautiful in movies does not always turn out to be the same in real life.
Someone still has to adapt to the other, otherwise the overall pleasure is blurred.
Perhaps one of the most common reasons when partners are unhappy with intercourse is its short duration. With a short intercourse, the man is usually considered the culprit, since the moment of cessation is premature ejaculation. It can be considered premature when a man is unable to prolong sexual intercourse for more than three minutes.
Reasons for the short duration of intercourse
Sexologists consider the following factors to be the reasons for early ejaculation:
- infrequent intercourse, which leads to increased sexual arousal and increased tension. This happens quite often in young men - with a long absence of a partner or at the first contact;
- anxiety, fears during intercourse, which may be associated with any annoying external factors or excitement due to problems in the relationship with this partner;
- the habit of an accelerated onset of ejaculation, which can occur in the event of unfavorable conditions for sexual intercourse, can also be during long-term sexual relations with a partner who does not know how to enjoy sex, who herself tries to stop intercourse faster;
- organic factors. This may be an increased sensitivity in any chronic diseases of the prostate gland, or increased local irritability due to the shortened frenum of the male genital organ, which becomes too strained during frictions.
How long can sexual intercourse last?
It is considered normal to have such sexual intercourse, in which the duration is approximately 7-13 minutes. When a man cannot stand more than three minutes, sexologists usually consider it an abnormally fast act. If the duration of the contact is more than 13 minutes, we can talk about too long its duration.
Of course, in all cases we are talking about the fact that the man is in his natural state during intercourse, did not take medications, does not use special techniques to delay ejaculation.
There is a traditional belief that really good sex should be long lasting. If you think about it, this is not entirely true. Active physical exercises for, for example, half an hour will lead to the fact that both partners get tired and no longer have the strength for other things, such as affectionate strokes, which can sometimes bring no less satisfaction than the most violent pushes and frictions. There are also frequent cases when, from the duration of sexual intercourse, a woman experiences painful sensations that do not go away for several days.
