The average duration of intercourse, not including foreplay, according to sexologists, is 2-10 minutes. However, having learned these numbers, you should not try to lengthen or shorten the time spent on sex. This process is very individual, and there is no need to drive it into some kind of framework.
Doctors sexologists and andrologists distinguish several types of male sexual behavior. Moreover, not always the same representative of the stronger sex behaves in the same way during sex. The duration of each intercourse is influenced by many factors - excitement, fatigue, stress, health, feelings for a woman, etc. Still, there are several classic types of sexual behavior that most men fit into.
The first type is “diligent lovers”. It is not so important for them to have pleasure as to give it to a woman. Actually, in some cases, the standard sexual intercourse - penetration of the penis into the vagina and frictions - may not reach. A man uses his entire arsenal - fingers, lips and tongue to please the woman. However, if intercourse does occur, it will only last long enough for the woman to reach orgasm. "Diligent lovers" learn various techniques of sex, learn to restrain ejaculation. Therefore, they will be on full alert for as long as necessary - five, ten, twenty minutes or even an hour.
"Passionate lover" - these men are distinguished by excessive ardor. Their passion flares up quickly, they instantly go on the offensive. Prelude is not for them, they cannot wait. The maximum time they can set aside for "warming up" is three to five minutes. The intercourse itself usually lasts just as quickly - two to five minutes. But at the same time, "passionate lovers" very quickly regain their strength and in half an hour they are already ready for "exploits" again.
If you are not satisfied with the duration of intercourse, try different techniques - breathing exercises, changing positions. Also helps to lengthen the process of condom use. In it, the sensations are somewhat dulled.
Traditional Lovers. These men once read that sex should last at least thirty-five to forty minutes. And they try in every possible way to keep within this gap. They spend enough time on foreplay and the intercourse itself. If they feel that they can finish earlier, they stop frictions and rest. They are used to obeying the routine. Yes, the first few times you may like it, but then the monotony becomes boring. I want outbursts of passion, but for "traditional lovers" everything is strictly on schedule.
Sometimes, with prolonged intercourse, a woman loses lubrication. And frictions are capable of delivering unpleasant sensations. Feel free to tell your partner about it. He is trying for you and may just not realize that you have already reached orgasm.
"Long-playing lovers". For them, it is not so much sexual intercourse that is important as being near the object of passion. They can have sex for a long time, sometimes all night. At the same time, taking long breaks for caresses, stroking, even for a snack. They do not drive themselves into frames, they act the way they want. Often "long-term lovers" are in excellent physical shape, because not everyone can withstand many hours of sex marathon.
