It is believed that it is much easier to conquer a man than to keep him. Many girls want their beloved to be always there, but at the same time they have to constantly avoid the danger of getting bored with him. Only the wisest of women can maintain the interest of their chosen one for many years.
A young person's personal time and space
One of the biggest dangers of annoying your boyfriend is the constant calls to his cell phone asking where he is. Calls like this, in the end, can pretty angry the guy, and he simply turns off the phone. By the way, as an alternative, you can forget your phone at home and make it worried and think about why your beloved does not answer his calls.
Also, do not forget that the guy needs personal time and space. Therefore, it is worth letting him go to football or fishing, having done this at the first request. Surely he will think about why they let him go so easily and, even being in the company of friends, will find time to call.
There is no need to try to change and "re-educate" your young man. Moreover, most likely, it will not work anyway. You need to learn to love a person for who he is, or let him go and go in search of the ideal herself.
You should not be jealous of a guy, because jealousy is always self-doubt. In no case should you spy on him, view his e-mail and SMS messages. If he catches his girlfriend doing such a thing, it can end very badly.
How to become unique
You do not need to impose the company of your friends on a young man, make him take part in ladies' events and listen to endless conversations about movie stars, fashionable diets, etc. For some men, all this has a depressing effect. If you want to relax and unwind, it is better to go shopping with a friend, to a cafe or a hairdresser.
From time to time you need to ask the guy for help (even if there is no special need for this), and then be sure to praise him. People are always pleased to be close to those who appreciate and need them. If he suddenly does something wrong, you should not focus on this, it is better to redo it when he will not see it.
You should not forget about your own appearance. You can do fitness, change your hair and makeup from time to time. You need to love yourself and do not forget to pamper yourself with the purchase of fashionable clothes, silk underwear and high-quality cosmetics. Such a girl is unlikely to get bored.
It's a good idea to find yourself an exciting hobby - to start drawing, dancing, learning foreign languages, etc. In other words, do what you like and let your boyfriend do the same. This will provide new topics of conversation and help drive boredom out of your life.
