Years of living together with your husband can lead to a routine in a relationship that once shone brightly. To change a dull and boring family life, try taking the initiative and starting with a change in yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Be self-reliant. Both you and your significant other may accumulate a certain number of questions, a to-do list, and unpleasant surprises during the day. Do not pour on him what you can decide for yourself. Of course, no one forces you to move the cabinets alone, but you shouldn't complain that the kitten broke your favorite cup, or start endless conversations about the injustice of your superiors.
Step 2
Consider personal interests. Set aside at least a couple of hours a week to pursue your hobby. For example, sign up for a language course or take up acrylic painting, master hand-made or interior design, attend dog shows, or purchase a pool pass. By the way, the latter will give not only emotional, but also physical relaxation, which will allow you to throw out tension, invigorate, and at the same time sharpen the figure.
Step 3
Do not let everyday life "eat" what you once began to live for. If you start to notice that each day is similar to the previous one, invite your husband to do something together that you have never done before. It is important that this is not limited to the framework of your apartment or house. For example, take a pair dance class, put on a puppet show for your kids or the neighborhood, fly a paraglider, or take an independent trip to a place you've never been before.
Step 4
Talk to each other. Know how to listen to your loved one, strive for a dialogue, which must necessarily end with pleasant words addressed to each other. Speak warm words more often, for which "everything was not the right moment." The original way to come to such a conversation would be a date. Agree to meet in some cozy place (especially for this, you can purchase a beautiful dress that your husband has not yet seen) and just give each other the feeling that both of you are still loved and desired.
