The lot of loving people is joyful and sad at the same time: being attached to each other, they can give their love and hit the sick person himself. The latter is connected with the widespread stereotype "If he loves, it means that he will endure."
Instructions
Step 1
If you are aware that you are wrongfully offending your boyfriend, find the reason for your anger. Perhaps it is fatigue, lack of attention on his part, or your low self-esteem. Therefore, allow yourself to rest, preferably separate from time to time. Do not overburden yourself with daily work so that at the end of the day you fall off your feet. And also do not be too demanding on the guy: your claims may arise on the basis of overestimated expectations.
Step 2
If something annoys, and you know that you are about to pour out your anger on a loved one, it is better to leave the room as soon as possible, motivating the departure by saying that you need to be alone. Acting on the principle “out of sight”, you will not offend your beloved guy with a surge of emotions, and at the same time you will be able to take a breath, being alone in the next room. There you can do whatever you want - kick the pillow or count to thirty, etc.
Step 3
But the opportunity to "escape" does not come so often, because unpleasant situations can happen anywhere. In this case, you should use some psychological tricks. When a person is on the platoon, he needs a release. If you feel that the cup of patience is overflowing, do any physical labor - wash the dishes, wipe the mirrors, or take out the trash on foot up the stairs.
Step 4
Is there a hot-tempered brawler among your friends or relatives, from whom all relatives are crying? If so, pay attention to his behavior, as well as how hard it is for loved ones who have fallen under the hot hand. In anger, a person can utter a lot of insults, but, releasing steam, he calms down and becomes silk. But the scars from this behavior remain for life. Evaluating the situation from the outside, it will be easier for you to learn from the mistakes of others and not to allow your own.
