It is very difficult to revive a relationship, especially if it was destroyed through your own fault. Of course, nothing is impossible, but if they were once upset, then something is already wrong. Trying is not torture. But, if you love, then the game is worth the candle.
Instructions
Step 1
Before you take any active steps, decide why you are doing it. Perhaps you are possessive, or worse, just a habit. In this case, do not torture yourself or the girl. Let her go.
Step 2
If you understand that you are madly in love with your lady of the heart and cannot live without her, you should think about the reason for the breakup. Once you are clear about it, try to talk about this topic with any girl you know. Such a conversation has its advantages: you can look at the situation from the outside, as well as listen to the female point of view, which, perhaps, will help you decide on further actions. If you are to blame for the breakup, said rude and unpleasant things, left the girl, she is unlikely to come back to you. At the very least, it takes time for the emotions to fade away and the resentment to pass. Perhaps she will forgive you herself and call you to a conversation.
Step 3
You will have to start over. You have surrendered, the territory has been liberated. Take back some of her free time - write unobtrusive SMS messages, in which there will not be a word about your past romance. Talk about abstract topics. Let her take a break from the emotions that overwhelm her.
Step 4
Become a friend to her. Evening walks, going to the movies, helping around the house - you should do all this absolutely disinterestedly, without hinting at any reward in the form of a kiss or sex. The girl must learn to trust you.
Step 5
You have tons of advantages over your competitors. You know this girl, her tastes, preferences, habits. Take advantage of this.
Step 6
Improve yourself. Change. No, no one talks about drastic changes, but if you devoted little time to her, were cold or callous, open your heart to her. Let her see and understand that this is just a defensive reaction from external influences, the fear of appearing too weak and helpless.
Step 7
Women love strong men. Strive for it, no matter what. Be her knight in shining armor. It only takes time - besiege the fortress, and one day it will fall at your feet. Girls like beautiful gestures and actions, do not skimp on gifts and attention, come up with original ways to spend your free time. Make every day of her life a little holiday.
