The departure of a loved one is hard to endure not only for a woman, but also for a man. It often happens that a beloved girl leaves a young man, because her feelings have died out or a new hobby has appeared, but the man's feelings remain the same - and he wonders if it is possible to return the relationship to its former course. If you feel that all is not yet lost, you can try to get the girl back and renew her love.
Instructions
Step 1
To get her to respect you again, stop showing her that you are nervous and worried. She should again see you as a calm, reasonable and confident man.
Step 2
Take your time - if a little time has passed since the breakup, wait at least a week, let the girl collect her thoughts and understand what she wants. Perhaps, after taking a break from you and weighing the situation in cold blood, the girl will understand that she wants to resume your relationship.
Step 3
In addition, a pause in communication will allow you to think alone about what made the girl leave you, and what does not suit her in you.
Step 4
Be critical of yourself - understand what your flaws are and how to fix them. Your task is to change yourself, get rid of shortcomings, change your lifestyle and type of behavior, get rid of those traits that do not suit the girl in life with you.
Step 5
Only work on yourself will help you return her love. Remember how you were at the time of your acquaintance and the beginning of the relationship. Analyze what has changed and what is gone, and try to bring back the feelings and images that you evoked in the girl.
Step 6
Try to make her feel like you've just met again. Be romantic, courteous, give her gifts and flowers, make surprises, take her to a park or a movie. Remind about joint romantic events and trips.
Step 7
If you understand that the girl does not like how you cope with everyday problems, try to solve them promptly. When she returns, she should be greeted by a clean house, serviceable equipment and a pleasant atmosphere.
Step 8
Your cheerfulness and friendliness will be transferred to the girl and she will again feel that she is drawn to you. The girl should feel the changes inside you - let her know that you have become a person even more attractive than the guy she once loved.
