"Nothing lasts forever under the moon …" - this beautiful and sad phrase applies to love too. No matter how much lovers would like to think that their feelings will remain strong and sincere, this does not always happen. For a variety of reasons, love can fade away. And now people who previously could not live without each other face a choice: either to part, or to try to revive the lost feeling. So how can you get love back?
Instructions
Step 1
Although they say: "You cannot live only in the past!", But now it is absolutely necessary for you to remember the happy moments of the past. As you just met, you felt the first, still indistinct, timid feeling for each other, how it grew stronger, turning into true love. After all, you were once happy together. Think: after all, you are still the same. Let the former beauty and ardor have been left behind, but they have become wiser, more experienced. Can't you find the strength and desire to overcome this crisis, to revive love?
Step 2
If possible, give up (at least temporarily) your daily routine, household chores and troubles. Go on a tourist trip or hike. A change of scenery with a lot of positive emotions is what you absolutely need now. You can try going to the same place where you were on your honeymoon, for example.
Step 3
Do not skimp on praise, compliments. As the saying goes: "A kind word and a cat is pleased", what can we say about the closest person. Alas, the reality is that some spouses, for some reason, much more often express complaints to each other, moreover, for completely trifling reasons, and they consider it unnecessary to praise or thank for something. But it should be the other way around. The more benevolent, more comfortable the atmosphere in the family, the less chances that love will leave her.
Step 4
In no case should you neglect the intimate side of life. Of course, it is naive to demand from spouses who have been married for many years the ardor of newlyweds. But you can't treat sex as something unimportant either. Because this almost inevitably leads to the separation of husband and wife from each other. Try to revive your honeymoon memories. And do not hesitate to show relaxedness, imagination (within reasonable limits, of course).
Step 5
Sometimes some common interesting hobby or hobby can help. Also, you should not lead a life of recluses, even if both the husband and wife are pronounced "stay-at-home". Go to concerts and performances more often. Host guests and do not neglect invitations yourself. Don't "stew in your own juice." Communication with other people will only benefit you.
Step 6
The wife should try to radically change her image. An original hairstyle, a different hair color, a new make-up, a renewed wardrobe - all this can make the husband look at his life partner with “different eyes”, and awaken his faded interest again. And then there is only one step to the resurrection of love.
