People sometimes fall in love out of the blue, even with strangers. In this case, they simply have no choice but to come up with a beautiful way to meet.
It often happens that, having learned the phone number of an attractive girl, a young man wants to get to know each other better. But he gets lost and does not know how to properly build a conversation and win over the interlocutor. Affordable mobile communication allows you to establish relaxed friendships. Of course, the first conversation is always very exciting and sometimes frightening. But knowing some psychological techniques and skillfully applying them, you can make a pleasant impression.
How to make a good first call
It is much easier to call a girl if you have learned the phone number from her personally, for example, in a fleeting conversation on the street or on public transport. In this case, the attractive person will know who she is talking to. It happens that you got a number from mutual acquaintances or on some website on the Internet. Then you have to be smart to get her interested. According to the rules of etiquette, it is better to call a couple of days after meeting.
A hasty call can scare a girl with persistence, and if you dial her number a week later, she may no longer remember who is calling.
At the beginning of the conversation, you need to introduce yourself. When you hear the answer from the other side of the wire, ask if you are distracting her from her business, what she is doing. When communicating for the first time, it is better to be brief and just ask her about her affairs, as well as the opportunity to continue the conversation next time. Brevity will intrigue the girl, and she will wait for the next call.
What and how to talk to a girl
When communicating, behave in a moderately relaxed and natural way. Girls do not like men who are too serious, she should feel comfortable internally. The conversation should be in the nature of small talk.
Before calling, think about what you can talk about. It may be appropriate to continue the topic that was discussed at the beginning of our acquaintance. Or you can find out in advance about the studies, profession and hobbies of a young person, find common interesting points.
In no case should you speak on vulgar topics or use foul language.
You should not talk on purely masculine topics, touch on global issues, for example, about politics, cars or sports. The girl will be bored. But to find out her opinion about a fascinating film or ask a recipe for some delicious dish - this can interest the interlocutor.
At the end of the conversation, you can invite the young lady for a romantic date and arrange a meeting in a cafe, in a movie or at an exhibition. Gallantry, neat appearance, beautiful bouquet of flowers will impress any girl.
