Not all people can easily keep up a conversation in a company or come up to meet someone on the street. Some don't have time for fun or personal acquaintances. This mainly applies to guys, since they traditionally show the initiative in communicating with girls. Shy, withdrawn and too busy young people still need new acquaintances and interesting conversations. It is useful for these guys to learn how to get acquainted by phone.
Instructions
Step 1
The phone number can be obtained from friends or colleagues, while asking in advance about the person. It is also quite easy to find a mobile phone number from numerous social networks, where you can find out in detail about the hobbies and interests of the object. For those who believe in miracles, you can dial the number at random, although something worthwhile can hardly come of it.
Step 2
It is important to realize that dating by phone is not the best way to start a relationship. Still, today's young people, and older people, are wary of communicating on the phone, as well as communicating on the Internet. It is advisable to simply intrigue the interlocutor by phone and make a personal meeting. Those. a phone call should be perceived as the first step to face-to-face meeting.
Step 3
Once the phone number has been received, it is important to determine for yourself the purpose of the call. If a young man or girl at a party or in a general company liked someone, but it did not come to a close acquaintance, this can be arranged over the phone. In this case, it is imperative to remind where the previous meeting took place, introduce yourself and, if interested, make an appointment at the other end of the line. When the number is received from friends or acquaintances, you need to say about it and express interest in the object. If the person is not familiar with the interlocutor at all, you can choose from several communication options: either "wrong number", or play the role of a secret admirer until the new acquaintance himself offers to see each other, or tell the truth about where the information about the person comes from, and about the desire to meet him. Most often, the truthful version turns out to be the simplest and most effective.
Step 4
A pleasant tone of voice and correct speech are important when communicating on the phone. In order not to immediately scare the interlocutor away from you, it is advisable to work well on their development in the absence of these skills. This can be done using a dictaphone and evaluating your speech from the outside or in professional classes with teachers in speech technique. Naturally, you should not be rude, use foul language and abound in parasitic words when meeting on the phone.
Step 5
When "Hello" is heard at the other end of the tube, it is important not to get confused and, if possible, confidently start a conversation. It is advisable to immediately state the name and reason for the call. Girls love open-minded guys, so lying and dodging, coming up with something grandiose, is not necessary. During the conversation, the interlocutor should speak more in order to feel interested in himself. After answering the standard questions "What do you do?", "Where do you study?" etc. you can use information gleaned from social networks or from friends. For example, talk about a girl's favorite actor or film genre, about the last concert of your favorite band, or a trip abroad.
Step 6
If the interlocutor easily makes contact or recognizes the caller and is happy with the call, you can immediately ask about a personal meeting. For those who are embarrassed to immediately proceed to active actions, at the end of the conversation, you can clarify the possibility of calling again. Most likely, the more proactive girl herself will offer to meet, than will save or simply accelerate the development of the situation. To increase the chances of success, you can, as if along the way, offer to hold a meeting at an interesting and crowded event: "Tomorrow evening, a massive launch of sky lanterns on the embankment, do you want to go?" or "I have an extra ticket for the presentation of the album, will you keep company?"
Step 7
If you are honest, open and unobtrusive in the course of a telephone conversation, it is likely that the acquaintance will bring the desired results. Each person is interesting in its own way, you just need to make your interlocutor understand your strengths. Being yourself and respecting others is one of the main personal qualities in the field of relationships.
