Sometimes annoying disagreements bring tension to the relationship of loved ones. A sibling can suffer from conflict as much as you. Someone must take a step forward, otherwise the misunderstanding will intensify. How to establish peace and return peace to the family?
Instructions
Step 1
Look for the original cause of the conflict. Oddly enough, it is often hidden because it is too painful. For example, your sister may feel that your parents love you more and harbor resentment, which is expressed in irritation, if you ask her.
Step 2
Try to calm down, let your passions subside. It makes no sense to appeal to prudence when the sister is literally seething with anger. Choose the right moment for a serious conversation. Don't attack, let the resentment recede into the background. Your task is not to make claims, but to establish neutrality while the world is still far away.
Step 3
Let your sister speak. The main thing is that she does not hide anything. When the first emotions subside, you need to start making agreements. Don't expect her to throw herself into your arms, especially if you think each other is guilty of some problems. Make a verbal non-aggression pact. A thin world is better than a good quarrel.
Step 4
Forgive my sister for everything. Self-esteem does not allow you to do this? Tell yourself you’re ready to start from scratch, not for her sake, but for your mental health. Invite her to do the same. Explain that mutual respect is the key to a good relationship, isn't she tired of endless hostility?
Step 5
Gather all family members for a festive dinner, throw a small party with a look at the family archive. It's great if grandparents tell you how adorable babies you were. Give your sister an unexpected gift, such as a beautiful bouquet of flowers, a fruit basket, or a set of cosmetics. She will understand that she is dear to you, no matter what.
Step 6
Be open! Your willingness to mend a relationship shouldn't be diminished by the slightest difficulty. It's not always easy to arrange the world, but with a certain perseverance, you will definitely achieve your goal, because there is nothing more important than mutual understanding of close people.
