The formation of a new family, the creation of strong, stable relationships is a long and difficult process. On this path, you can lie in wait for many "pitfalls". So that difficulties do not break your nascent union, it is important to understand and support each other.
Instructions
Step 1
Is the relationship a mess? Clean up your home. The environment that surrounds a person is capable of influencing his state of mind. Perhaps something will become clear in your relationship if you just clean the apartment.
Step 2
Why seek mutual understanding if there are no common interests and deeds? Break the "iron curtain" between you, go towards each other. Do together what you both are interested in: go to the skating rink, to the cinema, to the theater. Try to cook together something tasty and original, collect a large beautiful mosaic.
Step 3
Remember how your romance began, for which you fell in love with your soul mate. And compare with what you expect from the relationship now. Maybe you fell in love with the image that you yourself came up with, and now you do not like that reality does not correspond to your idealistic aspirations.
Step 4
But even in this case, mutual understanding can be achieved. Take a close look at your spouse. What, in fact, does not suit you in him, what causes your irritation? Now focus on its merits. Consider whether your lack of restraint in the little things is worth losing such a good person.
Step 5
Come to an internal consensus: agree with yourself that you will not pay attention to some minor flaws of your partner. Review in your mind the scenario of how you will react to serious "mistakes" by your spouse. Program yourself for the role that feels right to you.
Step 6
Do not keep emotions in yourself, express them openly. Of course, in calm, restrained colors. Verbal communication was invented by mankind for this purpose, so that people could better understand each other. And who will understand you if you remain silent and accumulate everything in yourself?
