Love is an unusual feeling that can come suddenly or remain desired. There are situations when a guy meets a girl for a long time, but realizes that he does not feel real love for her. These relationships need to be rescued as soon as possible.
Instructions
Step 1
Think well about how you feel about the girl. If you don't like her much, but you are dating her for some specific reason, for example, fearing to hurt her or simply out of pity, it is better to end such a relationship, otherwise you will torment yourself and her for a very long time. On the other hand, if everything suits you in a girl, but the feeling of love still does not come, you need to put things in order in your personal life.
Step 2
Determine what love means to you. It is possible that you still love your girlfriend, but for some reason do not realize it. Love can come in different ways: if you previously had some feelings for girls, with age, a person already feels less euphoria when he falls in love, especially if the previous relationship has caused mental pain.
Step 3
Reflect on what you like best about the girl and what you don't. Perhaps the whole thing is in some negative character traits, or you are not satisfied with something in the appearance of the second half. Highlight for yourself all the good things for which you think you should love her, and think of her only in a positive light.
Step 4
Think about the circumstances under which you started dating. Most likely, there is a reason why you chose this particular girl to build a relationship with. If you are able to recall this in memory, then you will realize that your significant other means much more to you than it seems now.
Step 5
Chat and date the girl as often as possible. Have romantic dates and say love words to each other. You can also find common hobbies or start one big business. If possible, go on a joint trip. The change of scenery and the adventures you go through together will bring you closer together, and love may finally wake up.
