The roles of the mother and father are the most important social roles that require certain knowledge and skills. In order to prevent annoying mistakes in the upbringing process, you need to know what they can lead to.
Inconsistency of requirements on the part of educators
If several people are involved in the upbringing process at once, for example, mother and grandmother. Requirements for the child differ, and at the same time, the relationship with regard to upbringing is being clarified with him. In this case, a future conformist grows up, who will adapt to a profitable demand for him. And in relation to a parent, with an opinion unfavorable for the child, a manifestation of disrespect is possible.
Unequal attitude towards the child
This attitude is typical for a single parent family. Mom, depending on her condition, then shows an excessive amount of feelings, kissing the baby, then gets angry with him, withdrawing into herself. In such a situation, the child grows up with a hysterical disposition, unable to control his behavior. Perhaps even some kind of detachment from the mother, due to the unexpectedness of her actions.
Increased exactingness and excessive severity
When excessive demands are made on a child, and even the most harmless pranks are not forgiven, he will grow up insecure in himself and in his abilities.
Lack of affection
Bodily contact is very important for a young child as well as for an adult. Sometimes parents find it unnecessary to show affection for their child. With such an attitude, the child will grow up closed in himself and distrustful of the people around him.
