Parents raise their children in different ways. Someone takes as a basis the advice of grandparents or more "experienced" parents, someone is based on literature, and there are those parents who simply raise their children based on parental instinct. There are a number of parenting mistakes that parents should not make.
Instructions
Step 1
You cannot blackmail a child with your love. Don't say you won't love him because you still won't be able to fulfill it. In the future, your child will no longer take you seriously.
Step 2
You cannot remain indifferent to the problems and actions of the child. He expects any criticism from his parents.
Step 3
You cannot forbid a child to do something, just because one of the parents wants it. It is necessary to explain the reason why it is impossible to carry out what he conceived. Let that give him a reason to think.
Step 4
You can't pamper a child. While instructing the child on the path, it is not necessary to remove all the stones, let him see them himself and step over the difficulties on his own. You just have to be there to support.
Step 5
You can not overestimate the ability of your child or burden him with an unbearable burden. The child will plunge into the adult world, forgetting about his childhood problems.
Step 6
You can't treat a child according to your mood. The problems of the parents should not affect the children. You can't prohibit or allow something based on your mood.
Step 7
You cannot always refer to the fact that there is no time to take care of children. The child needs communication with his parents. Even one bedtime story can be enough to make him feel that he is being cared for, loved.
