Have you ever noticed that the streets of the courtyards become empty every year? You can't hear children's arguments, you can't see the broken windows of a soccer ball, it has become a rarity to see children playing hide and seek. Only very kids dart around the sandbox together with young mothers. Where are all the children? And children, it turns out, play at home with their best "friend" - a computer. Why would they play "war" when, sitting at home on a soft chair, you can play a "shooter". Why look for friends behind the bushes and rush with the phrase "Pali-gali-for yourself" when there is such a genre of games as quest and puzzles. The computer deprives the child of his childhood. Try to change the situation with tips.
Necessary
- - children's books, magazines;
- - table games;
- - accessories for needlework;
- - a collection of outdoor games.
Instructions
Step 1
A computer is an achievement of technical progress, an entertaining thing, but you need to use it as needed. Children, on the other hand, play games, communicate, sit on social networks, view thousands of advertising banners all day long. Such a pastime negatively affects the child both indirectly and physically. Of course, you cannot throw the equipment out of the house, this is not an option. It is absolutely impossible to swear, punish, threaten - this will lead to the opposite effect. If the computer has become an enemy for you, with whom you have to fight for your child, follow your intuition and these tips.
Step 2
Talk to your child, find out what the computer means to him, what it gives him, and what it deprives. So to speak, reconnoiter the situation in which you will interfere. Perhaps the son or daughter understands that this is wrong, but do not know how to break this "friendship" on their own. You can talk about your attitude to technology, tell what you did at a time when there were no computers, ask, what would your children do if you abandoned them 40 years ago, for example.
Step 3
Offer your child an alternative pastime. Buy fun magazines or a book, construction set or board game. Invite girls to embroidery, knitting, or beading. Maybe the young craftswoman has a talent for making delicious sweets.
Step 4
An example of a relationship with a computer should come from the parents. Work in front of the monitor strictly at a certain time, turn it on - done - turn it off. You shouldn't leave the equipment working for the background, like a TV set. Explain that five-hour computing is a bad habit.
Step 5
Make time for children: visit movies, plays, museums, parks. Go camping and visiting. Communicate more, instill a love of nature by taking a trip to pick mushrooms or berries. Prove to the child that there are a thousand interesting things around that he does not know at all, intrigue, captivate children with information.
Step 6
Show the little fidgets what you can play on the street, what games were relevant in your time. It is likely that children do not know what to do with themselves. Explain the rules of the game "Cossacks-robbers", "Tea-tea-help out!"
Step 7
Set the time your child can be at the computer. For example, from 17.00 to 19.00, but after the completed lessons and household chores.
