As a rule, the first step in a relationship is made by a man: he confesses his love and begins to court, he spends energy and money on organizing dates, etc. But sometimes the girl herself takes the initiative. If a brave girl confessed her love to you, but does not cause mutual feelings in you, you should say "no" as politely as possible so as not to hurt her vanity.
Instructions
Step 1
If you don't know the girl yet, in response to the confession, say that you appreciate her feelings. Emphasize that her good attitude towards you is dear to you, that she is really beautiful and attractive. Sincerely and without falsehood, tell me how you regret not being able to be with her. Explain the reason: you prefer friendly relations with her, since you have to work together; Do you have a girlfriend; you and your girlfriend have too different personalities; something else is preventing you from starting a romantic relationship. Finally, compliment her appearance again. Refusal should be polite.
Step 2
If the girl is persistent and continues to pester you, try to avoid her company and the companies in which she happens. As a last resort, try not to be alone with her. Continue to communicate with her evenly, in a friendly tone, as if there was no conversation.
Step 3
If you want to end a relationship with the girl you are dating, use the first tip. Invite her on a date, compliment her appearance (the wording “you look great today” is unacceptable. Emphasize the consistency of her beauty). Then express your frustration at not being able to continue the relationship and explain why. At the end, compliment again. If she reacts to your words calmly, it is better to end the meeting immediately: leave the cinema or theater, walk her home and avoid each other for a while. If the girl gets very upset, cries, starts hysterical, listen to her silently, calm her down if possible. End the meeting, walk home, and avoid meeting for a while.
