Sometimes feelings cool down, only respect and friendly feelings remain. Some people do not pay attention to this and continue to meet, although love is no longer there. If you are not ready for this, try to gently communicate this to your partner and get out of the relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
Think if you are sure that the feelings have faded? Maybe such thoughts are caused by the candy-bouquet phase of the relationship? Its duration for each couple is different, but at the end there is often a feeling that love is no more. In fact, your relationship moves to another stage, where passion fades away, but tenderness and respect come in its place.
Step 2
Try to bring back the old feelings. Maybe you perceive your boyfriend as a friend because of your relationship problems? For example, he constantly disappears at work, because of which you do not have time for walks and romantic dates. Then it may feel like you are just friends, even though you are not. Tell your boyfriend that you want to see each other more often and add romance to the meetings. Think back to what you loved to do at the beginning of your relationship and repeat that. It can stir up your senses and you will fall in love with your boyfriend again.
Step 3
Talk to him frankly. Say that you feel a chill in your relationship. You shouldn't immediately say that you don't perceive him as your beloved boyfriend. Try to find relationship problems without revealing the root cause. Maybe by working together you can revive your feelings and become a happy couple again.
Step 4
But if you are confident in your decision and do not have romantic feelings for the boy, offer to end the relationship. It will not be fair to yourself and your partner to continue a relationship without love. You need to make a decision - to break up completely or try to remain friends.
Step 5
Choose a quiet, public place to talk. It is best to choose a cafe with a small number of visitors. So you can talk in neutral territory, without noise, but in the presence of other people. You don't need to talk about the breakup in private, because you don't know how your partner will react. In case of aggression, you can always leave or call for help.
Step 6
Do not use the youth's shortcomings as reasons for parting. Honestly admit that you no longer feel love for him, only friendly sympathy and respect remain. Remind him of his positive traits, tell him that he will definitely meet the right girl. Don't drag out the goodbye - 15 minutes will be enough.
Step 7
If you want to be friends in the future, you do not need to offer it right away. Give the person time to move away from the breakup and only then text him or her on social media. Ask about his affairs, find out the situation, and if he has gone through a breakup and is in the mood for communication, offer to become friends.
